Have you ever thought to yourself, how on earth does someone end up with 2,000 friends on Facebook or 500+ professional contacts on LinkedIn? Well I have. Several times. I’ve read theories on how many social contacts you can truly stay in touch with, but I’m curious to learn how and why that circle changes over time.
This curiosity made me want to start a “journal” of my thoughts and encounters with social technology and game-changing features – to help me think and reflect upon my thoughts, hopefully leading to some gripping conversations with like-minded readers. I believe there is a thirst to be quenched with a new social solution to help us achieve more than just getting “linked” with our network. The core trait of the ultimate personal network would be to help us stay linked with our inner circle (hence the title of this blog).
The launch of Path earlier this week is another reason that got me to start putting down some of my thoughts in words. Path is a “personal network” which seems to be based on an idea that had crossed my mind several times recently. The myriad of (social) networks out there are changing the face of social relationships, often reducing the quality of interaction. It is like meeting up with your old buddies after a long time at the loudest, most popular night club in the city, as opposed to having a private gathering where you can actually re-connect with each other. There is definitely an opportunity for a new way of thinking towards the online social life, addressing the apparent lack of privacy and intimacy.
It looks like Path is trying to test out the waters by just launching an “iPhone only” app for now and learn from customer data and feedback to improve their model, hopefully. The launch picked up media coverage quickly, which is easy to achieve when you are a bunch of ex-Facebook and Napster spin-masters.
Path is essentially a digitally shareable personal photo diary. I think this is surely the right idea, but with a questionable start on the execution. I see the potential for the concept to catch on and grow, but I also see some potentially game-stopping aspects of the model. In an attempt to make your network more personal, Path seems to think that they are doing you a favor by limiting your circle to 50 friends. So what happens when you reach the limit of 50 friends, and your brother decides to join your circle? Will you be forced to kick out your golf buddy to make room for your brother? Will you have to turn away friends, and tell them that they don’t deserve to be in your personal network? Let’s say Path then decides to extend your friends limit to 100, or 150. You will still hit the same wall, just further down the road. I just don’t see such a model of restrictive networks being sustainable.
In my opinion, there are two key moves that can make Path successful -
1. Position yourself with clear communication on what you represent in the social space
2. Shape your model around giving users ultimate freedom (not restriction) by investing in top-notch privacy controls, providing the greatest flexibility to create intimate personal networks
I hope that as people get more social-web savvy, they will “get” and accept more intricate systems that bridge the gap between the digital world and the real world.



